It is part travelogue, a glimpse into British culture and manners. It is also a look at modern retirement in America among Boomers. "Tennis, anyone," is a cliche evoking the lives of prosperous people at leisure. Tony Farrell plays tennis and he got a chance to play tennis at the grass courts at Wimbleton, so of course he went there to do it.
Social Security and Medicare greatly reduced poverty among America's elderly. Farrell is in a cohort of active and prosperous American seniors living well off earnings saved during an era of abundance, shaped by generous defined benefit pensions for some, by bull markets in 401-K investments for others, and for rising home prices for most. America has created a leisure class. Farrell earned his success. He is smart, hard-working, creative, lucky. He is a college classmate who went on to the Harvard Business School, and then had a series of marketing jobs for The Gap, The Sharper Image, The Nature Company, and independent work creating TV infomercials. You have seen his work. He managed the Trump Steak marketing. You may have bought something "As seen on TV!"
Guest Post by Tony Farrell
Three weeks after Wimbledon ended this July, my wife, Kathy, and I were among 16 players from Berkeley Tennis Club (California) to be hosted by the All England Lawn Tennis Club (AELTC) for friendly matches with them. We were honored to play on the hallowed grass of Wimbledon, the sport's most revered shrine.
I’ll start with my most recent prior visit to England, in 2016. On Tuesday, November 8, election day, Kathy and I boarded our SFO flight to London at 6:00 p.m. Nine hours into the flight—still sealed off from the outside world and clueless about the election’s outcome—the lights came on; breakfast service began; and the pilot announced that Donald Trump had won. This sudden revelation elicited a few high-pitched cheers but a deep, funereal moan seemed to send a shudder through the plane. Remember, that June Great Britain had voted to exit the European Union. A dark time. The centenary remembrances of the Great War matched the mood.
This time, in 2023, the mood was sunnier. What struck me first was the festive, crowded, constant bustle of all of London; not only tourist areas but the neighborhoods we transited on our way out to the suburbs. Streets, sidewalks, parks, cafes, shops, all seemed at capacity with both vacationers and locals. An impressive sight, compared to San Francisco, where at 4:30 p.m. workdays, downtown is practically void of people and cars, with boarded up lunch spots everywhere. The Bay Area may have a diverse populace but not a diverse economy, and tech’s work-from-home shift has struck a mighty blow. London was a revelation.
Being from tiny tennis clubs, we were surprised to learn that the All England Lawn Tennis Club has only 500 members (tournament winners get in automatically) and only about 300 are active! But AELTC, the billion-dollar enterprise, has 350 full-time staff. The waiting list is, obviously, more than a century long and practically hopeless for almost all who are on it. After a thrilling croquet match (AELTC was founded as a croquet club) we learned there are only 20 active croquet players. While attractive, the Wimbledon grounds are massive; more like a well-landscaped industrial park than a typical club. Its management is divided between those who run the major annual tournament, and a much smaller staff who takes care of the few members.
Farrell with wife Kathy, daughter Morgan, and their new rescue dog. |
Because of the down-to-earth graciousness and courtesy of our charming Wimbledon hosts, politics were never discussed. (No titting their Boris to tatting our Donald.) But it was interesting to hear of one London-based player who had left his home at 6:30 a.m. to take the train to Paris to catch two doubles matches at the French Open, and was home by 10:30 that night. Before Brexit, that was like going from California to Nevada; post Brexit, it was quite the hassle with passports, etc.
In London, plus in Scotland and Northern Ireland, Brexit remains a shocking disappointment; something as serious as it is senseless to be dealt with. Of course, Britain has always been contrary: Driving on the wrong side; rejecting the metric system. But, you know, now they have Euros (unlike the first two EU countries I visited, Sweden and Hungary, which retained their currency). Ultimately, I believe Great Britain will make non-treaty accommodations with the EU (like Norway and Switzerland) to adopt EU rules, and enjoy most benefits, without surrendering “sovereignty” as they view it. In any event, virtually all service staff, in hotels, shops, transit, etc., seem to be non-natives.
One chat I had with a former chair of AELTC signaled a consonance with progressive trends, when he lauded the accomplishments of the now-grown children of an immigrant Laotian family (one of whom is a senior umpire for their tournament). He stated that if one ever needed an argument for how immigration strengthens a nation, there it was.
After our Wimbledon treat, Kathy and I vacationed further in Hamburg, and found ourselves in the middle of a 100-thousand person Gay Pride march; rainbow banners flying everywhere. Again, quite lively and festive, with not one hint of animus.
8 comments:
Tennis is serious exercise, unlike driving around in a golf cart. Kudos to Tony Farrell. Most people his age have downsized to pickleball.
Nothing wrong with pickle ball or any safe, reasonable form of physical activity. It should encouraged, not maligned.
Why are there so many self-loathing older people on this blog? Are you all depressed? Low T?
Sunday Spoiler Alert (off topic): Saw Ramasleazy on ABC this morning. He looks like he is ready to bite my head off with those giant, bright white teeth. He is the Libertarian wolf from Wall Street. The Libertarian Party is the political home for people who don't care about anyone else: anarchists, narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths and a plethora of other social deviants.
Does the paranoid, anti-establishment, anti-vax Republican base know that he is a Wall Street biotech (pharmaceuticals) hedge fund guy?
PS - Rama also graduated from Harvard and Yale. Can you get more East Coast establishment than that?
Stealing Ramasleazy, it's just too perfect. I caught his performance on ABC, and also on MSNBC being braced by Al Sharpton, who I literally never watch, but for yhe first time invyears was glad I did. Sharpton kept after him, despite it being like nailing jelly to a wall. Ramasleazy changes his responses midsentence without ever answering a question. I hope he gets torn apart (virtually, not physically) during the Republican Food fights to follow .
Nobody said there was anything wrong with pickleball. “Anonymous” sounds like the same individual who castigated us yesterday for agreeing with the notion of age limits, as if desperately trying to convince himself that aging has no negative effects on the mind or body. If he ever needs neurosurgery and the surgeon turns out to be Biden’s age, I wonder if he’d have a change of fart.
Ramaswamy is just there for comic relief. No Hindu is ever going to lead the White Nationalist Party, even if he is crazy enough.
Many good thoughts from today's post.
1. When I moved to Florida, wife and I encountered pickleball for the first time. An 80 years old gent taught us the game. I play with neighbors 2 or 3 times a week at courts that are a short walk or ride away. Wife plays 4-5 times per week, and one per week competitively as a rated player. We both love it, and our other activities are daily walks and of course golf. Me, 4 times a week, and 2 for her. We've got championship and executive courses to pick from.
In my 20s and 30s played a lot of racquetball, and a little golf in my 40s and 50s.
2. Just returned from a trip to Iceland, Norway, England, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland, and Ireland. Met so many people and saw many, many sites. 5 weeks of eating, drinking, and sightseeing. Best part? No political discussions. Learned so much more about history:
- Everyone travels to Europe in the summer. This was mostly a first for us as our world travels typically avoided the summer months whether for pleasure or for work
- obscure places revised my view of history. In Iceland learned how the stronger Vikings and Arab pirates captured and enslaved weaker whites throughout history
- civilizations existed in remote Scotland and Ireland long before the Egyptian dynasties
- Europe is a melting pot, just like the US
3. After 5 weeks of travels it's hard to get back into the groove of paying attention to the news of the day, and taking care of daily life activities - doctors, shopping, paying bills, managing investments, and simply reading.
Biggest learning? Stay active, and stay healthy. Encountered many people enjoying life. So glad we were able to engage with fellow travelers from all walks of life.
I wish more could have the same experience.
He reminds me of an old adage his donors should remember: A fool and his money are soon parted.
Mike; wait until the R "base" finds out Ramasleazy took a fellowship grant from Paul Soros, George's Brother and used it to go to his Ivy covered Law School.
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