Thursday, June 1, 2023

"What's my motivation?"

"When an actor comes to me and wants to discuss his character, I say, 'It's in the script.' 

If he says, 'But what's my motivation?', I say, 'Your salary. '"

                        Alfred Hitchcock

Why? Why really?

The question, “What’s my motivation?” is a cliche and sometimes a laugh line.
  The phrase invokes a school of acting known as “Method” acting. The presumption is that the actor needs to understand the inner motivations of a character to present the character convincingly.

"Motivation" is central to politics. Voters attempt to make sense of politicians. I think that on the margin among swing voters not locked into a party affiliation, elections are won and lost based on the voter's overall sense of the "whole person" among candidate choices. People get "a feel" for the person. Maybe Al Gore is stiff and stuck up. Maybe Jeb Bush is low energy. Maybe Rubio is little and overcompensating. Maybe Hillary is bitchy, ambitious, and crooked. Maybe Trump is a narcissistic con man. 

Those words describe the motivations and inner character of a person. The words frame how we interpret them. In the microcosm of this blog, and in the comment sections of news websites that still have them, motivation throws the comment section into flame wars. Commenters posit motivations for other commenters. Those commenters hate it and respond in kind. 

Yesterday an anonymous commenter observed, correctly, that I complimented Biden on his management of the debt deal. He gave Kevin McCarthy space to sell it to his caucus. The comment read:

As I try to understand your long-standing contempt for him, here is my list (in progress): He is an elder statesman who rose through the political ranks (a combination of ageism, ableism and jealousy); he stutters; his only surviving child from his first family has substance use disorder; he did not graduate from an Ivy League college; he is still considered "cool" and good-looking for his age; he is humble, empathetic and not a narcissist.

Motivations are mixed and complex and likely poorly understood even by oneself. They are intensely private. Having one's presumed motivations described publicly is an invasion. That is why doing it to an opponent is an affront, an insult, and a show of dominance. "Pocahontas." "Lyin' Ted." "Little Marco."

Here is how I responded to the comment:

Dear Anonymous. 

It is impolite to posit the motives of other people, especially people you are disagreeing with. Why do I say what I do??? It must be contempt. It must be agism. I must not like his stutter or his family. That must be why.

Better policy is to describe actions, not presume motives. I notice that you read me, pay enough attention to pick up and remember themes over several posts, and you note areas of my criticism. I do think he is and acts too old to be a strong candidate. I do think he has a political problem in Hunter. I do think he is not a strong communicator able to frame issues in a way that moves the thinking of the nation.

It's better to describe my actions, not my motives for it. It would be as if I were to posit that your motives for reading me and commenting is that you are still trying to impress your schoolteachers, but have body issues and other insecurities that force you to comment anonymously, which is why you do that. Making such a guess about your motives for commenting anonymously would be hostile and impolite and totally fabricated. It would be an attempt to ignore your observations by belittling you personally. It would be foolish and wrong--but it might be effective in putting ideas into other readers' heads. Go ahead and ignore the commenter because he is still feeling bad about looking like a dope in front of his third grade teacher, plus he feels fat. Pay no attention to him.


I do what I can to discourage personal comments from one commenter to another, and I fail at it because commenters love to do it. Still, the best rule of thumb is to comment on policies, not on the presumed character and motives of the commenter.

 Labeling the motivation of others is a heavy weapon. It works too well. It is political junk food, like candy that spoils dinner. It distracts readers from issues toward imagined personalities. It is everywhere, and it is bad for us.

 

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4 comments:

Rick Millward said...

It's true actions speak louder than words.

Motivation does have a role though, because humans are very good at camouflage and hidden agendas. When words and actions diverge is when it's probably a good idea to question motives. Politicians in particular are notorious for "flip flopping" when circumstances suit them so one should consider why and how their behavior serves their self-interest. Lindsey Graham is the poster boy for this, but all of them do it to one degree or another.

Of course the main issue here is making choices between flawed alternatives. The biggest factor then does become motivation. Trump's name calling reveals his utter disdain for his supporters, the right wing base, as he panders to their fears and prejudices. This is done so he can drag his opponents down to his level. I don't think it's farfetched to ascribe this motivation.

That said, there actually are only a few motivators that actually matter, the biggest one being money.

Mike Steely said...

I think we try to understand motivation as a way to try and make sense of the world. It’s not enough to know who, how, what and when. We also want to know why. Why are people so infatuated with guns that can quickly kill so many people? Why do people refuse free vaccines that could save their lives? Why do people support a party that tried to overthrow the government? Why are people so fearful of those who are superficially different. Why do people believe stuff that obviously isn’t true?

Facts and policies are important, but what gives them context and makes them interesting are the motivations behind them. It’s like the difference between a high school history book and something like And There Was Light, Jon Meacham’s book on Abraham Lincoln and the American Struggle - a book that probably wouldn't be allowed in Florida's school libraries.

Dave said...

Labeling is one of “the tactics to avoid change,” in the criminal personality. It dehumanizes and allows the labeler to not treat the person as a human. In war humans put a label on the enemy making it seem alright to kill them. I think the past behavior of labeling someone as liberal, as if that was bad, or now woke, as if that’s bad as well, gave the “conservative the okay to be mean and demeaning.

Michael Trigoboff said...

Very good thoughts, Peter.

There have been many times in the comment threads on this blog, where some people have convinced themselves they can see into my soul and discover … racism! That’s convenient for them because then they don’t have to confront or attempt to refute the actual points I am making. They can just fling the r-word instead.

It’s a dishonest and toxic tactic. It can be very effective in woke environments like academia. When I was teaching at Portland Community College, the tactic was often deployed against me. But since I wasn’t relying on the teaching job for my livelihood, I wasn’t intimidated and the tactic didn’t work. It was kind of amusing to watch them cast what they thought it was their magic spell, and react with puzzlement and confusion when I didn’t go “poof” and disappear in a cloud of smoke. 😀

It would be a lot better around here if people would just take each other’s arguments in good faith. Here’s hoping…