Monday, September 2, 2024

Trump holds you in contempt.

Trump dishes out insults. Can he take them?


Maybe a better question to consider is what is wrong with a person who insults nearly everyone.


Trump's use of demeaning language makes a lot of people uncomfortable, but it doesn't mean it isn't effective. When he calls Kamala Harris a low-IQ slut, it positions him as the dominant one, the person in power, making adverse judgments on a person he humiliates. His MAGA voters cheer him on.


Maybe it was time for turnabout, I wrote last week. Trump presents himself as a sexual Superman. Not only could Trump shoot somebody on Fifth Avenue and not lose votes, he could sexually assault someone, defame her, lose in court and be ordered to pay $80 million in damages, and not lose votes. Trump felt it appropriate to assert he has "no problem" in the size department. Not so fast. Two can play the humiliation game. Stormy Daniels testified under oath to the contrary. He is small and weird down there.

College classmate Jane Collins read my post and wanted to add her perspective. It was different from mine. Hers was less about humiliating Trump in turnabout than it was recognizing that Trump's use of insults reflects so badly on his character. Something is deeply flawed in him. 

She says she is okay with Trump including her in the list of targets. She reminded me that she is very short. She said she resents Trump using "little" as an insult. She said she is pretty sure Trump would call her a "communist" because her politics are Bernie Sanders-adjacent. He would call her a "moron" because she has no money. He would say she is a "dog" because she never was beautiful. 



Collins

Guest Post by Jane Collins


                                      Trump, the Insult Candidate  

According to Trump, women are fat pigs, horse-faced, ugly, dogs, crazy as a bedbug, nasty, birdbrains, whack jobs, or else can succeed only because they are beautiful or give blowjobs to the right people. But of course, he doesn’t just pick on women. After the latest round of Trump campaign slut-shaming, I tried to think of any group Trump hasn’t insulted. Black people are low-IQ. Muslims hate Americans. Jews who vote Democratic should have their heads examined. Reporters are public enemies.

 

Trump has mocked people with disabilities, Gold Star families, soldiers who died in war. Straight white Christian male Republicans are safe -- unless they dare to cross him. African countries are "shitholes." Immigrants are criminals, rapists, drug dealers, disease carriers. Poor people are morons. Anyone who believes in climate change, or that the last presidential election was free and fair, is a sucker who has fallen for a hoax.

 

What lies behind such relentless disrespect? Once upon a time, Trump was a handsome young prince, the scion of a racist real estate mogul who made him a millionaire by the age of eight. He learned all the skills a con man needs, including how to respond if anyone called him a fraud, a thief, or a sexual opportunist: “I know you are, but what am I?”

 

Owing to a lifetime of getting away with countless financial and sexual misdeeds, surrounded by sycophants, and protected by revolving squads of conscience-free lawyers, Trump is convinced he is invulnerable. He believes he is still young, strong, and handsome. His mind is clearly in tatters, but he continues to think he’s the smartest person in the room.

 

Who does get Trump’s respect? Tyrants. He makes puppy dog eyes at Putin and cherishes love letters from Kim Jong Un. He envies their ability to kill their enemies. Trump can only insult his.

 

I am proud to be part of some of the communities for which he has shown so much contempt. They comprise most of the United States, and really most of the world. If you haven’t been insulted by Trump yet, you’re just not trying.

 

 

(For a comprehensive list of Trump insults on Twitter, see:  https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2016/01/28/upshot/donald-trump-twitter-insults.html)




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13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you, Jane, for a column I wish I wrote. The psychological concept is called projection. I accuse you of being what I am deeply afraid that I am. All can Trump can say about his opponent is that she is a ‘defective’ or ‘nasty’ person. Really? As if he is qualified to judge…
I hope that the first time he pulls that during the debate Harris responds to the effect: “Is that the best you have? You May want to make this A schoolyard recess taunting contest, or a scene from Mean Girls, but I believe that the American people deserve better than that.”

Anonymous said...

And watch Hillbilly Elegy if you can stomach it. Do you really want that out of control and traumatized teenager to be second in command?

Mc said...

I went to school with a guy who, like Don Old, insulted everyone unlike him: minorities, the disabled, people who he felt were unattractive. Once I matured I realized this guy was extremely insecure and immature. His jokes/insults became pathetic.
I had nothing further to do with him.
He initially thought his jokes made him look strong but, innreality, he was scared and weak.

I was initially conned.
It's a shame people do not see that TFG is a very weak man. With him, everything is transactional; he did not grow up in a healthy or loving environment so hate is all he has. Even his children and wives do not have love for him.

It's a shame many American are still being conned by this man.
The guest post explains why Don Old envies tyrants; he thinks they respect him but he's just their patsy.

John C said...

Nice one Ms. Collins.

I was at my 97 year old father’s bedside during the last few hours of his life. He was remarkably coherent, and even had his trademark humor as his kidneys slowly failed him. I asked him, looking back over his life, what were the most important things? With a twinkle in his eye he said- “oh that’s easy: the capacity to love people and receive love”. Then he said even though he was nearly financially insolvent, he said “I am dying a very rich man”. Most everyone who knew my dad would not be surprised by that answer.

The only thing worse than TFG’s relational impoverishment, is that he has convinced so many people that his morally bankrupt worldview is worth following.

Mike Steely said...

When Peter wrote last week about Trump’s penchant for misogyny and calling people stupid names, a Republican commenter chided him saying, “The world is on the verge of a WW III, and the topic of the day is sex and name-calling.”

a) The world is not on the verge of WW III.
b) Whether it were or not, the last thing the world needs is for the U.S. to have a leader whose only talent is denigrating others.

Republicans don’t care how ignorant, incompetent, crazy or criminal he is. I’m sure psychologists and psychiatrists will be puzzling over that in the decades to come. It’s interesting to note the similarities between the attitude of today’s Republicans toward Trump and that of the Germans toward Hitler. They’re all just full of self-deluding excuses.

Jennifer said...

This commentary is so well-written, thank you. I think we understand, to the extent that it is possible, the behavior of TFG. What is harder for me is understanding his supporters. I would like to be able to understand more fully how they can rationalize to an extent I would not have thought possible for so many people.

Annie Drager said...

The people who support or should I say worship The Donald have many reasons and see what they want to and believe the lies perpetrated by Fox , Truth Social. Some also faulty recall of Trump’s many bombastic statements and actions. But things like this almost always happen in times of war, economic disparity and pandemics. Donald’s supporters identify with his persecution complex and cheer him on as if they were him. It’s up to Democrats to solve problems and not make fun of these people but also not ignore the danger they pose to our society and democracy..

Annie Drager said...

There are many different reasons people still support Trump. Some believe Trump's lies or only listen to Fox, Truth Social or other media that perpetuates Trump’s lies. Some identify with Trump’s persecution complex unable to trust the justice system or worse have suffered from some miscarriage of justice. They are bitter and have lost faith except in their worship of their hero who becomes a martyr for these people. Or he is seen and admired for appearing to outwit a corrupt system. In times of war, climate and political refugees, pandemics and economic disparities and uncertainty some will seek out this type of leader who promises to save his followers. Democrats shouldn’t scorn or make fun of these people but should solve problems and hammer home policies that lift everyone up. These people often have genuine but unmet grievances that should be heard because if not these people become a danger to others and our democracy.

Peter C. said...

It sounds like Nixon's Enemy List. During Watergate, everyone who was anybody wanted to be on it. I wouldn't mind being on Trump's, but I'm not a noteworthy person. If someone here knows him personally, mention my name. Thanks in advance.

Ed Cooper said...

I'm a Vietnam Veteran, who came home pretty much unscathed as I was not out in the Jungle with a rifle for either of my two tours. What I cannot begin to fathom how any Veteran of any era can stand idly by while The Convicted Felon virtually pisses on the graves of our Fallen Comrades in Arms.
I'm not a Psychologist, but I've read about Mass Hysteric episodes, and I see a parallel between the Cultists worship of Trump and those victims of Jones in Guyana several decades ago. It's the only thing I've been able to come up with.

Mike said...

It doesn’t really explain anything but the U.S., like the rest of the world, has always had its share of people drawn to cruelty and darkness. They supported slavery, the Confederacy, white supremacy, WWII fascism and segregation. That same mentality now supports making a malicious criminal president.

It’s a conflict that seems to be part of the human condition – fear, anger and hatred versus the better angels of our nature. If you can’t bring yourself to vote for Harris, at least do no harm: don’t vote.

Ed Cooper said...

Mike, it seems to me that staying home amounts to a Vote for the Felon, unless an equal or greater number of his supporters decide to stay home as well.

Mike said...

I was addressing Republicans who recognize Trump's clear and present danger, but don't like Harris either.