Trump brags: "We've already won."
Hegseth: "Patently ridiculous" to think we hadn't anticipated a blockade of the Strait of Hormuz.
Trump requests help, while insulting the people he needs the help from: “We don’t need people that join wars after we’ve already won!”
Trump grouses that allies are hanging back: "Why aren’t we being reimbursed for that?”
Trump, realizing the situation is deteriorating and that the need has grown: “I’m demanding that these countries come in and protect their own territory, because it is their own territory.”
The German defense minister, speaking for a Europe that was not consulted about the U.S. and Israeli war, says: “This is not Europe’s war."
The world looks at Donald Trump and thinks, "What a spoiled brat."
How else to think about an American president who disrupted trade with our long-time allies by saying they were cheating us, by scolding them in speeches saying they didn't understand their own cultures, and by entering into a war with Iran without getting even token buy-in?
Donald Trump has rich-boy disease. Trump was sent to what was known in my youth as "reform school," the New York Military Academy. It didn't fix him. I had presumed that Trump was primarily indulged as a child. How else to think about a person who bragged that he could walk up to women, kiss them, grab them by the p___, and brag about getting away with that or with shooting people on Fifth Avenue. So selfish. So inconsiderate.
My brother, David Sage, dealt with prison inmates in a 30-year career as an Alaskan prison psychologist. He told me the prisoners he encountered were not sons of multi-millionaires like Trump. But most of them, like Trump, developed bad behaviors from childhood because of what they had failed to learn. They weren't taught the negative consequences for bad behavior.
The U.S. elected a careless person, a monumentally selfish and inconsiderate one, one blind to the damage he does, one who would be familiar to people who read The Great Gatsby.
They were careless people, Tom and Daisy — they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness, or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made.
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| David Sage |
Guest Post by David Sage
I worked in both men’s and women’s prisons as a prison psychologist in Alaska for 30 years. During that time I facilitated probably 20 multi-week parenting classes. I always took a poll of what kind of parenting styles the prisoners received. The choices were neglecting style, overly aggressive, controlling style, or caring consistent style with reasonable limit setting.
Approximately 60 percent of the inmates said they got neglect-style parenting; the parents were barely there with little to no limit-setting. The second most common style -- 25 percent -- was from parents who were overly strict, controlling and physically abusing. Around 15 percent of the inmates reported that they received what they perceived as good parenting.
What struck me from these intense discussions of the inmates' early parenting was that children need to learn to say no to their impulses. The neglected children weren’t taught to say no; they could just do whatever they wanted. The abused children never learned to say no; they just had to adjust to whatever the abusive parent wanted.
I think there is a correlation between people who are not taught to inhibit their impulses and people who break the law and end up in jail; jail is the ultimate no. It is the no some people are forced to experience because they won’t inhibit their bad behavior on their own.
I view Donald Trump as someone who never received proper parenting and has never really received no for an answer to his behavior. As a result he does whatever he wants and doesn’t think he should ever experience any consequences. He is the inmate who needs to be taught that, at least in jail, he either needs to behave or he will be locked down into solitary confinement. The Supreme Court could have said a decisive no to his illegal behavior, but instead it exempts him from lawbreaking. The legislative branch majority is just going along with whatever he wants. The American people could have said no by not electing him, but chose not to do so. Now the world is beginning to say no and he acts outraged and surprised. It is a lesson he has needed for a very long time. Too bad he didn’t receive that lesson when he was three years old.
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