Monday, September 17, 2018

High School "Attempted Rape"

This is dangerous territory for Democrats.


Democrats may think they have the silver bullet.  No. They have Kodachrome.


"If you took all the girls I knew when I was single
And brought them all together for one night.
I know they'd never match my sweet imagination
Everything looks worse in black and white."
                  Simon and Garfunkel 1973


Click: Kodachrome
Democrats are grasping at straws and for a good reason. The GOP stole a Supreme Court place from them, and now they are adding a second spot to tilt the Court for a generation or more. They want to stop Kavanaugh.

But almost everything is bad about this new weapon to de-rail the appointment --except one thing. The accuser is a professionally accomplished white woman, and Republicans cannot call her a porn star or fortune hunter. 

But everything else about this fits a different meme, that Democrats and women will "cry rape" or claim "sexual harassment" in order to game the system, either to get ahead themselves or to sabotage a man. That meme is out there, and Trump personally and the GOP generally, promulgated that meme.

Is that unfair to women and does it deny the reality of sexual assault? Yes. But we are talking political effect here, not justice, and this is a political fight and nothing else at this point. Cases of this kind can fall into either of two pre-set paradigms, the just-accusation or the false-accusation, depending on the sex, race, and circumstances, and whom one wants to win.

People who want to "believe the woman" may reverse themselves when it is a white woman using a rape accusation to assert white power, e.g.the "Scottsboro Boys case. False rape accusations drive the narrative of To Kill a Mockingbird. 

It all depends. The rule of thumb is to believe the victimhood of the person we want to believe. Sometimes it is the less powerful of the participants. Black men have less power than white women. White women have less power than white men. 


Click. Falsely accused.
Choosing whom to believe feels good in a partisan fight, but it is politics, not justice. 

Politically there are problems in this case for Democrats because this story feeds the white male resentment and anxiety meme, that women use claims of sexual misbehavior as a weapon of politics, not of truth or actual injury.  

1. The story came out in dribs and drabs, from leaks. First impressions matter, and it came out as rumor, furtively, from an anonymous source.

2. It was new, essentially from out of nowhere, referencing an event about 1981, with no contemporaneous reports to others.

3. They were all young. Brett Kavanaugh and his friend, Mark Judge, were "one or two years older" than her, i.e. 17, making her 15 or 16. There was alcohol involved.

4. She says Kavanaugh groped her, which is being described as at its greatest interpretation, as "attempted rape," and she says she feared being "killed accidentally" as they tumbled on clothes. The accusation positions the accuser as passive, sexually uninterested, acted upon and unwilling, which may be true but it raises the question of the overall circumstances of the event and her interpretation of it as a victim.

5. Of course, Kavanaugh and Mark Judge deny anything happened that way.


What really happened?

Very probably something. Very possibly something improper and disreputable. We don't know and cannot know exactly. It would have been good had there been responsible adults in the house at the time of the reported incident.

Click. Teenagers do it. Problems sometimes ensue.
What we do know is that teenage memories of this kind are powerful and unreliable. Each of the participants is likely to interpret the events in a light favorable to themselves and each have their own very different reality. We know teenagers do sex play, often badly, frequently willingly, then feel weird about it, maybe guilty, maybe thrilled, maybe confused.

Politically: in the long run this will backfire on Democrats. 

In this environment, Democrats have no choice but to "believe the woman," but this means doing so under circumstances that reveal the political basis for their believe rather than the evidentiary "beyond a reasonable doubt" basis. 


The danger for Democrats is that the incident embeds a threat and vulnerability to every voter. Everyone has a history. Women are not exempt. Could someone accuse of woman of being a "slut"? Could someone claim she "came onto me?" Did he or she really kiss me first or kiss me back? Who did what, and how is it remembered by the other person?

Democrats are on safe ground when they accuse the Koch Brothers of using their power to act in a boorish, self-interested manner, taking advantage of other, weaker people. They are on unsafe ground when they make the same accusation of against voters. Going back to this incident means there may be forgetting, but there is no safe harbor.

Even if Kavanaugh is booted, when it is all done this may strengthen Trump's hand.

This isn't what Democrats intend, but it is what they are doing.



5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Men who say crap like
"women will "cry rape" or claim "sexual harassment" in order to game the system, either to get ahead themselves or to sabotage a man."
Are a part of the problem. A HUGE part of the problem.
You can choose to create a safe place for everyone with your words and life, or you can - by simply opening your mouth - perpetuate the danger the women live in every day.

Up Close: Road to the White House said...

I agree with anonymous above. It is part of the problem. But the attitude of skepticism of women's accusations IS out there, and it is a big enough problem that Trump used it profitably.

Uses it daily.

I do not attempt to describe a wonderful world where everything is fair and just. I attempt to describe the ideas and attitudes that are out there. In the South the idea was (is) that white women are lusted after and preyed upon by dark skinned men and that such men are dangerous and the woman is always right and the dark skinned man is always wrong. Believe the woman.

Then, when it comes to white men, the polarity reverses. There is a reason why some 65% of white men without college degrees voted for Trump. Trump appealed to something they feared and believed, an idea that is, indeed, out there. Strong cases help undermine that meme. Weak cases strengthen it A 35 year old incident, among teenagers, is inevitably going to be a weak case, given the two alternative interpretations available and the presumed political context for the accusation.

Democrats--indeed everyone--needs to understand this reality.

John Flenniken said...

So, it’s another he said, she said! If I was conducting the interview of Judge Kavanaugh I would suggest hs memory of past events seems spotty at best. Testimony to date has been incomplete. We, on the committee, were not allowed to see 100,000+ documents, and those we did see you couldn’t recall you had seen them or they were heavily redacted. It’s not about sexual harassment, it’s about your ability to recall past events and reasoning behind your behavior and decisions. Those documents may revel the thinking behind your decisions. We need time to review all the documents in your file. Remember we’re conducting a job interview at this moment and we have significant questions that require answers before a hiring decision can be made. So far we’re not satisfied with your responses.

Use the abuse complaint as justification for a more thorough vetting.

Peter C. said...

John is being way too reasonable here. We are talking about the GOP that doesn't care what someone has done in life as long as their politics are right.

Someone sent 30,000 or something coat hangers to Sen. Collins of Maine. I think she got the message. It only takes a couple of GOP senators to reject him.

Anyone who hasn't read Woodward's book "Fear" should. It gives you a good insight into the way Trump thinks.

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